Dating on sites, what do you need to know?

Taboo Topics When Dating

Many people divide life into two main components - work and family. Therefore, if the conversation does not concern work, then in one way or another it affects the family (going to the museum with the second half or children, family vacation, joint sports classes, spouse's opinion about your company's new advertising, etc.). And if the interlocutor himself easily starts talking about loved ones, which you are ready to support, is nothing reprehensible.

But if you are not aware of your colleague's family situation (perhaps he is divorcing, has lost a loved one or cannot find a common language with growing up children), you should not raise this topic and ask him uncomfortable questions. In addition, you should not complain about the second half or support such conversations. Support your colleague himself if he has a difficult situation, but you do not need to discuss his personal life in a negative way. Life will improve, and awkwardness may remain.

How do social media affect us?

Psychologists from the University of Georgia found: communication in social networks causes a sense of satisfaction when those people with whom we have already developed a good trusting relationship prevail in our virtual environment. Social psychologist Susan Newman explains that status updates and "likes" give us the feeling that people who matter to us are always "in touch," that they will support us. However, there is a flip side: getting used to supporting friends, we cease to control ourselves and become vulnerable. Criticism and disagreement can hurt harder.

Main rules for dating

1. Learn to get to know each other. One of the main skills that allows us not to lose the many opportunities that life offers us is, of course, the ability to get acquainted.
2. Know how to support the conversation. It is very important to interest the interlocutor, especially at the first stage. It depends on whether there is potential to continue your relationship. Be open and friendly.
3. Watch your reputation. Reputation is such an interesting thing, which is developed gradually, and is lost very quickly. So, so that she does not roll under the sofa, you need to constantly monitor her. In general, reputation is what is constantly expected of you under certain circumstances. Let's say friends know that if they come to you with a problem, you will definitely listen and help a person psychologically.

How to make friends abroad

Since you are a model of a sociable person, what prevents you from meeting a foreigner? Lack of knowledge of the language - absenteeism, alcohol erases all language barriers. Well, seriously, the tourists who come to our country are the same people as you and I, they also have a lot of problems and worries, families, cockroaches in their heads. So, they are also in a foreign country!

So, how to meet a foreigner? First of all, going out hunting foreigners, find a tourist group. Watch her carefully. Sooner or later, one of the tourists will get away from the pack. And then he is yours. Sometimes people are shy about asking for help, so be proactive - offer help yourself. Friendship often begins with a small favor.